This past May, my wife and I decided to fix up our house on Martha’s Vineyard in order to put it on the market. I came up in May, while my wife Gail came up a month later.

Tiffany Ellis keeps the house happy. — Jeanna Shepard

While sitting at a bar hoping for someone to talk to, this nice lady introduced herself to me and we enjoyed some conversation. Her name was Valerie (didn’t get a last name). Somehow it came up that I was a Viet Nam vet and she told me about the Oak Bluffs VFW. She described it as a lot of nice people and invited me to drop by and have a drink.

Not being much of a joiner of clubs and not really interested in talking war stories with a bunch of old guys like me, I pretty much dismissed the invitation. The VFW was on the route to my house so I passed it frequently and always noticed lots of cars there.

One day driving by, I decided to go in and check it out. Being an ex-New Englander, I knew that most people at bars were cliquey and didn’t talk much to strangers, so I was not expecting to stay for more than one beer.

Boy, was I mistaken!

A guy came over to me to check me out and see why I was there. He introduced himself as Rick, the “soon-to-be” commander of the post. We hit it off and I was introduced to a bunch of other nice people whose names I would never remember.

My wife Gail came up and I told her about my experience and we decided to go in together. She loved it as well. We sat with Ray (former commander) and laughed and talked until we were all pretty plastered. Meeting Jimmy “the Mayor,” Jerri, Squeaky and Tiffany the bartender during later visits finally shamed us into coughing up 28 bucks to join and get a key.

We would like to say to all of you, including those names we forgot or never knew who said hi to us while there: Thank you for letting us be your guest and welcoming us into your family.

Truly fine people who will not be forgotten.

If anyone comes to Marco Island and tells us they are Oak Bluffs VFW members, they will be our guests whether we know them or not!

In the meantime, Tiffany, use this money to buy a round on Jim and Gail. We will be raising our glass to you guys at 6 p.m. this Tuesday. It would be cool if you guys would do the same.

God bless all of you.

Jim and Gail King live in Marco Island, Fla.