Joan MacDuffie Lowell died peacefully in her sleep at her home in Edgartown on March 13. She was 98.
Her husband Ralph Lowell Jr. died at home just nine months before, in May 2022, at the age of 99.
She was born in Boston in 1925, the oldest of the four children of John and Evelyn Walker MacDuffie of Chestnut Hill. She grew up in Chestnut Hill and attended the Windsor School in Boston, and Bennett College in Millbrook, N.Y. where she majored in fashion design. Though she would never admit it, she was very artistic and creative.
Throughout her life, she enjoyed sewing, cooking, painting, and gardening.
Joan married Ralph Lowell Jr. of Westwood on July 15, 1948. They raised their family between Westwood and Nahant before retiring to Edgartown in the late 1970s.
She was very proud of their first little house on South Summer street in Edgartown, which she bought on her own as a vacation home in the early 70s. It was her pride and joy and living there was the happiest time of her life. She and Ralph spent hours on All Island Tours, exploring the Vineyard’s back roads and beaches, digging for clams, checking out local farm stands and going to yard sales — a regular weekend activity.
She especially loved deep sea fishing for stripers and blues with Capt. Nelson Smith out of Edgartown harbor. She was quite the fisherwoman and often seen with Ralph at the weigh-in station in Edgartown during the annual fishing derby, checking on the competition. All of her family members have fond memories of participating in these fun activities with her while visiting on the Vineyard.
She is survived by three children and their spouses: Ralph (Rafe) Lowell 3rd and his wife Priscilla of Sherborn, Evelyn (Vee) Lowell Lynch and her husband John of Moretown, Vt. and Amy Lowell of Greenfield, N.H. She was Grandma to six grandchildren: Abigail Lowell Barjum of Wellesley, Emily Lowell of Dover, Robert Lynch and John (Mac) Lynch of Moretown, Vt., Charlotte MacAusland of Reno, Nev., and Dorothy MacAusland of Westmoreland, N.H. She also leaves four great-grandchildren: Abbott, Archer, Bayley and Channing, with another on the way.
She was predeceased by her sister Katherine Whitney. She leaves behind a sister, Patricia Swan, and brother John MacDuffie Jr.
She also leaves devoted caregivers, Nancy Nevin and Nana Atuahene of Martha’s Vineyard, who helped Joan and Ralph immensely during the latter years of their lives, and whom she loved dearly. A private family ceremony will be held in her memory in Edgartown this spring.
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